When keepin’ it real goes right
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My problem with this is WHY would you ever let a guy treat you like that. On the FIRST fucking sign you’re a racial fetish you bite that dick off like a chocolate bar, just like he wanted it, & move the fuck on
Slow down there partner, I don’t date non-Black men so the “racial fetish” thing doesn’t really apply. These are Black men who think I’ll take it as a term of endearment, because most women do. Why would I “let” a man treat me like that? As if I can intercept a man’s thoughts before they make their way out of his mouth? I correct him or if it persists, I end it. No one is “letting” anyone do anything. And honestly it doesn’t bother me when ALL men do it. I’m complicated like that.
First, why would you not date anyone who isn’t your color? Secondly, that completely changes it. I don’t understand why a black man would do that, and I’ve never heard of any other couple of the same race talking to each other like that. That’s quite odd, really. Is that common for black men? I’m honestly curious.
And I just hate when anyone is seen as a racial fetish. I’ve been with a few black men and any time a black man that knows who I am sees me they feel the need to call me a snowbunny and laugh and mock me just cus they arn’t the ones that got my pussy. I’m not a whore; I was with these men. And any time I’m with a black male friend I get called it no matter where I go. And I see women constantly hit on by the color of their skin basically everywhere around here. I do live in the south Louisiana, though, which continues to be one of the most racist parts of the United States. But it’s so gross, and I don’t stand for it.
I have never dated outside my race because I am attracted to Black men. Apparently we have that in common. I would never fuck a man who sees me as a racial fetish so your reference to “biting his dick off like a chocolate bar”….um nah. It would never get that far. I clearly said I just “deaded” (ended things with) a man who called me chocolate. We never even kissed before. It got nowhere.
You don’t get it because you are not Black…in the Black community it’s quite common to refer to people’s complexion as “caramel” or “chocolate” in a positive way. Light-skinned girls call themselves “caramel” and women say they like “chocolate” men. It’s regular shit. Generally speaking, I do not like it, most people have no issue with it. Which is why a Black man would think it’s ok to say, until I establish that it is not. It in NO way compares to the use of “snow bunny”. Apples and oranges. That shit is used as a joke and y’all don’t realize it…
A joke? Naw they directly look at you as ‘a white girl who fucks black boys’ and that’s ALL you are to them. And if you don’t wanna fuck you are nothing to them, just some stupid hoe that threatens their ego. But that’s how it is with ANYONE who has a racial fetish. I would never trust anyone who does because I think it’s a sick mindset.
I’ve dated Spanish, white, black, & Indian men, 2 white women & 1 Italian woman. I am attracted to specific individuals of all races; not any race more-so than the other. I don’t know why you’re only attracted to black men, but on a psychological level, it sounds like a subconscious bias to the outside. If you only date people of your race, what level would you take it to? Why have friends of different races if you wouldn’t date them? Arn’t you excluding yourself from the possibility of love like that?
Yes..a joke. And your entire first paragraph reinforces that notion. I don’t know where the miscommunication is taking place. A man will call me his “chocolate queen” and intend for it to be the sweetest thing he’s ever said. I don’t believe that is EVER the case with “snow bunny”…as you just confirmed. The INTENT behind “chocolate” vs “snow bunny” is not at all the same.
"A psychological level"…? I have a degree in psychology. No need to get all Freud on me. It’s news to you that most people tend to date within their race? Although differences between people keep things interesting, commonalities tend to be what keeps a couple together…understandably people tend to have the most in common with others of their own kind (whether that’s race, religion, nationality, whatever). It is so much deeper than the way you’re portraying it. I don’t feel as if I’m missing out on anything. And I enjoy having friends of all races, ethnicities, religions, sexual orientations, etc. because I learn so much from their different perspectives. But in terms of building a future, raising children, etc? I cannot see that with anyone but a Black man and it would take so much more than a Tumblr post to explain why. Is your group of friends nothing more than a pool from which to select potential mates? I can have friends who are different from me because I don’t need to see in them what I’m looking for in a lifetime partner. I’ve had crushes on men of all races, and if I was the type to date casually with no intention of it being serious or long-term, then sure I could date anybody. But I enter relationships with purpose. And that purpose isn’t being fulfilled with a non-Black man.
man all this boils down to this: If she dont wanna be called chocolate and caramel or whatever it is, dont fucking call her that. you can call a woman your queen without saying chocolate. just call her your queen. Hell just call her by her name and whatever puppy names she likes. but dont call her fucking chocolate
This all boils down the OP having a valid point and some WW wanting to remind her and anyone else reading this that BM have wanted and sampled her pussy because we should all really care about that or something. And also said WW being all pressed that this BW doesn’t seem to require White approval of her love life.
I don’t really understand why this convo had to happen this way. On both sides
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why is sex also referred to as “the birds and the bees” birds can’t fuck bees that’s fucked up thinking about it fucks me up
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